love swing

 I just reinstalled my Love Swing after a recent move, and realized that I never reviewed one of my favorite all time products. And it’s probably a good thing, since I have the ability to let you know that this product has stood the test of the time, at least with me. In researching my review, and looking for new and improved versions of the love swing, I came across quite a few threads and topic discussions calling the Love Swing a fad, similar to a kitchen juicer or bread maker that gets used a few times, then collects dust in a closet. I’m glad to see that those people have been proved wrong.

 In the perfect world, this would be the perfect wedding or anniversary gift to give to a friend. In my case, it did become a much used piece of equipment, more like a coffee pot or toaster, not the bread maker or juicer.

 There are variations that allow you to temporarily hook up your swing in a doorway or on a stand. I prefer the old eye-hook in the ceiling method, which allows you to place the swing away from doors and walls, and give you 360 degrees of movement. Here’s a hint: Go garage sale hunting, and find a chin up bar or other workout equipment. Having it handy lets visitors think its for the other form of exercise.

The love swing can seem daunting at first glance, looking much like a medeveal torture device. In reality, it is very simple & easy to use once you get used to it. It does require a bit of balance to become properly situated on the straps, but once in place, it not only feels secure but is quite comfortable. (More than one person I know likes to sit in it for watching TV.)

It also is wonderful piece of equiptment for people who have back and hip or knee problems.  It takes the pressure off of knees and lower back by putting one person in an upright position. The swing can be adjusted so that in a standing position, your partner is at exactly the right height, and pulling and pushing the swing makes a  little movement or motion go a long way.

 Once you are comfortable with the standard position, it becomes fairly easy to create new positions that allow the swing to carry the weight of one person. You can even use the box for ideas.

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I ran across this article today that I found a bit disturbing. It’s an article from The Stranger, and alternative paper based out of Seattle. A lawmaker came up with a grand scheme to charge an additional tax of 18% to sex toys. In the article, he is quoted as saying, “The purpose of this bill is to find a legitimate taxing source that the people in the state and my district would support. “If it does cause harm, it will be to industries people don’t care about.”

  There’s more than one thing that disturbs me about this article.

1. Yes, people will care. More couples purchase adult toys than people think. So his attitude that people will not care will, in fact,  directly effect couples and parents in his state.  With the economy the way it is, and people struggling, what could possibly be wrong with people taking comfort in each other? Doesn’t he think, even remotely, that adult toys could bring people together?

2. There’s an arrogance to what he is really saying. What he is really trying to say is that he has no problem victimizing an industry that people would be reluctant to publicly support. It’s an organized crime technique gone mainstream. “I’m going to screw you over, and there’s nothing you can do about it, and nobody will come to help you”.

3. Why isn’t Viagra on the list of things he wants to tax? While everyone enjoys sex toys, you have to admit, the most popular shapes and sizes are the ones designed to give a woman pleasure. So in a way, he wants to disproportionately tax women’s sexual pleasure as compared to mens.

Once again, when it comes to getting screwed, nobody can do it better than government

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leather corset

I’m very excited.  I’ve been spending the last few days uploading a new leather collection to Romantically Rebecca that includes bras, corsets, bustiers, thongs and more.  I’ve been a fan of Allure leather and lingerie, and I’m very excited to add their items to my collection.

 One part that really excites me is the addition of many great plus sized items. And the plus sized photos are of real women, to help a real sized woman understand what the item will actually look like when worn.  More on that in another post.

While many immediately think of BDSM when they think of leather, the sensual aspect of leather makes it perfect for corsets, bustiers, and even bras and thongs.

Leather and vinyl lingerie actually require little care, and with proper care, will last a long time. More on cleaning and storing leather and vinyl here.

You can view our leather items here

Plus size leather can be found here

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OK, you might be freaking out about the concept of taking sexy photos of yourself and sending them to your partner’s phone. While sexy photos CAN mean full nudity, it doesn’t have to. Do what’s comfortable for you, but at least consider the possibility of pushing your boundaries, at least a little.

Send your partner a photo in your sexy dress, or sexy outfit you plan on wearing during your time together. Guys you can do this as well with a  sexy thong, satin boxers or a cute bow tie. 

Create a still life, with pillows, candles or other accessories you plan on using during Valentine’s Day.

Every couple has a few inside jokes between them, some of which are sexual to them, but to others would appear innocent. Try to capture that sense of team and togetherness with the inside jokes you share. Humor is sexy.

Capture a body part. A leg, shoulder or arm, with nothing provocative showing, can be just as sexy, if not more, than full disclosure. It leaves much to the imagination, but still comes across as confident and sexy.

 Be creative! The point of the exercise isn’t to create a work of art. It’s a great way of letting your partner know you are thinking of them when you are not together, and sends a nice message that you look forward to time together.

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Sex furniture, including products like Liberator, have become very popular.  Personally, I think it goes beyond the contoured shapes designed to put your body in different positions and angles. There is something inherently sexy about having a product specifically designed for sex play. It’s a mental thing. Having a piece of furniture designed for sex automatically helps set the mood, and gets your erotic juices flowing.

Being on a budget, you can create your own sex furniture, using items from around the house. The idea is to take some time creating your temporary pieces, and leaving them intact for a week or two, so they are readily available and remind you of having fun.

Aside from the mental stimulation, creating sex furniture puts your body on different angles, and creates new sensations from the same positions you were performing on a flat bed. In many cases, you will find that simply changing your body angles also makes certain positions easier, requiring less effort and increasing endurance.

 Create pieces that fit you, and get creative. Here’s a few ideas to get you started:

Rolled up sleeping bag

 Take a sleeping bag, and reroll it as tightly as you can. It will still have a little give to it that will contour to your body to create a comfortable, cozy fit. This “tootsie roll” is great for a woman to put her belly on, raising her butt just enough to get a great angle, without having all her weight on her knees and hands.

Similarly, placing her butt and lower back on the pillow raises her pelvic area so that a man can reach her while on his knees, supporting her back, and relieving her of her partners body weight. This also puts the guy in an upright position, requiring less work that traditional missionary style.

Rolled up bath towels

Similar to the sleeping bag but smaller, roll up two bath towels and tie with some nice ribbon or soft tie material. The concepts are the same as above, but smaller, and can be used during missionary style to support the lower back, and slightly changing the angle of penetration, hitting new sensitive areas.

Double pillow

Take a large pillowcase, and stuff two pillows into the pillowcase. A double pillow is the perfect size for a man or woman to put under their buttocks, raising them off the bed to receive a nice erotic massage with either hands, mouth, or a combination of both.

Kid’s slide

Just about everyone has one of those little blue and orange kid’s slides in their garage. And you will never look at it the same way again!

Not everything has to take place on a bed, and  the upper half of your body fits very well to the shape of the slide. Cover it with a light blanket to soften it and make it not as cold. With the slide legs against a wall, you or your partner can lay in a semi reclined position, and do whatever comes to mind next.

The possibilities are endless. Think of laundry bags filled with towels, yoga mats, or even a beach ball covered with a pillow case. And don’t forget that half the fun (OK, not really half) is creating these things with your partner, laughing and creating a moment of togetherness.

Let me know what you come up with!

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Another great computer option is Onyx, by SymToys, a game of sexual exploration.

Onyx is a downloadable game, with a free version as well as an enhanced, registered version available for $35. The free version is fun, and asks for a list of household items you have available for your game. Items asked for include chocolate, ice, and whipped cream. The graphics can be a it hard to read at first, and the rolling and moving of the pieces is automatic and fast. After the roll, a box will appear giving you a task to perform, many within a certain time period.

We are giving the link early in the week, so that you can play a sample game, and then shop for additional items you may want to incorporate into your next session.

 You can find Onyx here

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This week, we will be posting free or inexpensive Valentine’s Day ideas to help create a memorable romantic setting and create a week of renewing your sensuality in all of it’s forms. Whether learning to enjoy a new partner or embracing, reconnecting & lighting the fire of your existing partner, it’s all about sharing, enjoying each other’s time, and realizing that connecting isn’t tied to a gift or financial outlay.

Today’s Journey - Map Of Sexuality

SymToys  has created something fun, an online map of human sexuality. It’s even interactive, allowing you to place pins on the areas you have journeyed, and even areas you might be interested in exploring in the future. You can enjoy seeing where you have been while also determiming where you may want to still explore.

 It’s a great way to begin a dialogue with your partner, each creating their own map and sharing the areas of the map you have always been interesting in exploring, or could never explore!! Maybe even create a plan to add a new pin to your map on Valentine’s Day!!

 Visit The Map Of Sexuality Here

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One of my other businesses is interior design.  And one type of job that I take the most pleasure from is redesigning a bedroom. Having a client trust you enough to help makeover the most intimate part of their house really is an honor.

 Many people underestimate the power and sanctity of their private quarters. But there is something organic and natural about the sense of comfort we feel when it comes to our bedroom spaces. Don’t believe me? Think of this:

 A salesman comes to your home to sell you insurance. You seat him in the living room, but he asks for a glass of water, proceeds to the kitchen with you, and unpacks his materials on the kitchen table. Why? Because he knows that guests are entertained in the living room, while friends are entertained in the kitchen. He jumped himself up a level in order for you to feel more comfortable.

What if that same salesman had a reason to enter your bedroom. What would your first natural reaction be? And what if he sat on your bed? For most people, it would feel very uncomfortable. A stranger has made himself relaxed and comfortable within a space reserved for your intimate moments. And by intimate moments, I mean prayer, dressing, relaxing, and sharing with your spouse. We have a natural, normal instinct to protect the sanctity of that inner space.

Many people are familiar with the biblical term “marriage bed”, which traditionally was decorated with colorful ribbon (purple especially), and was given a celebratory and sensual feel. Many scholars believe the term marriage bed is better translated to encompasss the enire room or space, not just the bed. But the lessons are the same.

Over the course of time, and through political motives and bad translation, protecting the marriage bed and it’s space has come to be defined in terms of infidelity. Far more encompassing, it’s truly about protecting the sanctitity of the space itself, and creating an oasis from the outside world that allows you to feel relaxed and recharged.

While a great design is helpful in keeping your space relaxing, there are many daily things we can do to keep the space as the intimate setting it should be.

1. Lose the TV This is the one thing I always have to fight people on the most. TV’s are good for one thing, receiving input while being passive. We have two modes, input and output. Using a television in the bedroom immediately puts us in a passive, input mode, and keeps us from reaching that relaxing place of processing the days inputs, and begin to create our own output.  If you just can not live without your TV, limit your TV bedroom time to a particular show or time, allowing time afterwards for relaxing before turning in.
2. Daily issues belong at the kitchen table If there are issues that need discussing, such as bills, kids schooling, the world economy, move those discussions to the kitchen and keep those constant stressful conversations out of your intimate space. At the very least, moving to a new room when you are done discussing it helps you shift gears, and move on. Moving to your bedroom now is a giant stress reliever, and these issues are not allowed to infiltrate your room.
3. Develop Rules For Arguments Everyone disagrees with their spouse from time to time, and we attempt to keep our issues away from the kids and other family members. While some say never to fight or argue in the bedroom, I disagree. Having a place to air your differences allows the conversation to develop into “I feel……” sentences, which help clear the air and get to the root of the issue. Develop rules for arguing that do not allow the conversation to  diminish into hurt feelings.
4. Bring A Small Couch Or Comfy Chair Having a small couch or comfy chair in the bedroom gives a new area to relax, read a book, or engage in conversation. It’s uses a minimal amount of square footage yet creates a sanctuary all it’s own.

With just a little thought, you can create yourself a sanctuary, one that allows you to relax, rid yourself of everyday stresses, and begin to spend extra quality time together.

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I’m really excited to add two lines of glass dildos to my site. I love art and all things artistic, and have always loved the unique artistic traits of glass and glass blowing. Glass dildos share the same long history as glass itself, and I love the concept of owning a toy created by a craftsman. Most of these glass dildos are beautiful to look at, and are pieces of art in themselves.

Here is a highlight of our products:

Cupid Glass Dildo by RubyGlass21

This dildo is approximately 7 inches in length and 1 inch in diameter. The shaft is covered in randomly placed hearts that add about 1/6 inch to the diameter. The head is smooth and rounded. The base has a flared base for free standing. This dildo features the g-spot curve. This piece is available in the clear glass with the red hearts.

Vincent Glass Dildo by Liberator

Vincent glass dildo by Liberator

* “Hard as a rock with a smooth head”
* “7-9″ long - can hold it with two hands”
* “Straight as an arrow, even when I’m distracted”
* “Strong orgasms without messy clean-up”
* “Aimed to the ceiling and ready for lift-off”
* “Engorged with veins”

The perfect penis is one that works. The perfect diletto is Vincent. Enjoy.

For a truly unique sensation, Vincent can be thermally altered by placing in cool or warm water before insertion anywhere.

Bobo Glass Dildo

To many, Spheres are accorded metaphysical powers for health and well being. Spheres can be appreciated simply for their beauty or for their energy. The Bobo Sculpture touts dual spheres of varying proportions and perfect clarity. One for vaginal and one for anal, both for play, stimulation, and exploration. For those seeking female ejaculation and G-spot stimulation, Bobo is the instrument of choice. For those seeking double entry, BoBo is the instrument of ultimate pleasure.

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With everyone tightening their belts this year, there is no reason that Valentine’s Day needs to suffer. Quite to the contrary, building an evening of romance on a limited budget is a great exercise to show that love romance and intimacy is not tied to your wallet or pocketbook. It’s simply about the two of you spending time together, sharing and having fun.

With everyone’s lives being extremely stressful this year, a great theme for Valentine’s Day is “Teamwork!” Use Valentine’s Day as a reminder of the basics: Whatever situation the economy has put you in, you are a team and can get through it together.

Here are a few tips to begin thinking about for this Valentine’s Day.

1. Lower your expectations.Like many holidays, we seem to build expectations of what would constitute the perfect Valentine’s Day.  Anything short of that perfect vision then leaves you feeling unsatisfied. There are many things out of your control, understand that real life will more than likely interfere at some point.
2. Plan with your partner. We all like surprises and to see our partner make the effort to plan something they think we would enjoy. With life being extremely stressful this year, make it a team building exercise and plan it together.
3. Think communication. Last month, we found a store than sells bulk candy, including some of the cheap penny candies we haven’t seen since we were kids. We filled the bag, and plan on eating it on Valentine’s Day, talking about the childhood memories the candy brings back. Similarly, look through childhood pictures, yearbooks or mementos and the memories associated with it. You’ll be surprised at how fulfilling it can be, and how much you can still learn about your partner.
4. Eating Out. Going out to dinner is a Valentine’s Day tradition for many. If it’s a tradition you would like to keep, begin searching your local newspaper now for Valentine’s Day specials. Also search online for coupons and specials. It doesn’t sound sexy or romantic, but also doesn’t leave you with regret the next day for breaking your budget. Planning it ahead gives you the opportunity to scout the best deals plan your budget and not be stressed about it on Valentine’s Day.
5. Eating In If you are planning on staying in, plan a meal you can cook together. A variety of small finger foods is great, since you can cook, nibble and talk all at the same time.
6. No TV, no movies TV and movies allow you to do one thing, watch. Think interaction instead. Ask friends if you can borrow a few board games that you don’t currently own for the evening, so that you have a variety of different to choose from.
7. Mentally prepare With the stresses of daily life, it becomes hard to suddenly unwind and relax. Everyone needs downtime from the business end of life to recharge their batteries. Begin reminding yourself now that you are allowed to take time off from the worries of daily life and enjoy each other’s company.
8. Have a trial run Similarly to number 7, it’s hard to suddenly sit still and relax. Pick an evening or two before Valentine’s Day to spend some time together. It’s only natural that sitting down and spending time together wil lead to discussions of work, finance and the kids. Planning on time beforehand allows you to purge yourself of those issues, and make Valentine’s Day about the two of you.

Starting February 1st, we will be posting daily inexpensive Valentine’s Day ideas, as well as fun things to do leading up to Valentine’s Day.

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